Why am I here? My answer will not differ from an answer of any other lady or man on this site: I`m ready to meet my man who will love me and will be glad to get my love! My stategy is - to be sincere, so the Man I need (not the hundreds of admirers, but only one) will understand, that I am - his destiny; to give him opportunity to distinguish and don`t lose me among the others - sure enough beautiful, - but vicarious.

I`m agree with Erich Fromm:"Love is an active interest in the life and development of the love object". That`s why I`m searching for the man, who, the same as I do, believes in love without limiting freedom of the partner, based on trust, common respect and mutual understanding. In such alliance both do support each other and help to grow as a personality, to improve themselves and enjoy the victories and achievements of each other.
Also I cannot stand cheating - when there is love between two peol there is no place for adultery. You may always find a younger, more beautiful and richer partner, the only one you could never replace: your Beloved!